Answer:   Chances are you already know.  

What we hear, more and more often, is that you are picking up on the subtle changes in behaviors and interests and, as time goes on, you start to “feel” like something is “not right.”   First of all, trust your instincts.   Then, call us.   We will ask you a series of questions such as:

Has your spouse/partner developed a new hobby?

Is your spouse/partner working more overtime?

Has his or her habits (work or play) changed in any way?

Is your otherwise sedentary spouse/partner suddenly leaving the house more often?

Is your spouse/partner keeping the inside of their vehicle cleaner than normal?

Is there a scent of perfume or a new air freshener smell in the vehicle your spouse/partner drives?

Is your spouse/partner dressing up more?

Has he or she changed their style of clothing?

Has he or she stopped wearing a wedding ring?

Is your spouse/partner hanging out with new friends?

Is your spouse/partner spending more time on the Internet, especially when you go to bed?

Is your spouse/partner interested in sex – with you?

Has he or she developed new sexual preferences?

Are bank statements or phone bills being hidden from you?

Does your spouse/partner leave the room when a call or text is received? 

May be nothing; could be something..... 

Interestingly enough less than half of all men consider getting involved in sexual relationships over the Internet as infidelity.   You can check out a site called Infidelity Check for statistics and information on how the Internet has opened up a whole new avenue for those looking for an escape.

With infidelity, a lot of cases lead to divorce, in which case, what you don’t know CAN hurt you.   It is not unusual for a cheating spouse who is deciding on divorce to spend as much as a year before actually filing, for the purpose of hiding assets.

Regardless of whether you live in a community property state or not there will still be the incentive to hide assets, unless of course you are one of the select few that are in the financial position where you needed a prenuptial agreement as part of the marriage arrangement.

The situation is the same, regardless.   There are still trust issues that will need to be resolved.   There are emotional wounds that need to be healed if you are going to work it out.   If there are children involved, the decisions become even more complicated.

Before you can do anything, you have to know where you stand and you can only do that by proving or disproving your suspicions.

The question we have for you is:   Why do you want to know?   If your answer is simply a desire “to know,” hiring a private investigator can be an expensive way to find out.   However, if you have a legitimate legal or medical reason to know, call us.